Last year while flying from Phoenix to Seattle my thoughts turned to memory care. Why? Because my mother-in-law lived in memory care and I’ve worked for years with families seeking memory care.
From what I’ve observed, the memory care mantra is “Keep it Simple.” Seniors with memory loss may often experience anxiety, and the fewer the complications the better.
SPACE–The room should be uncluttered. That means a bed, a dresser, and an easy chair or two, one for the resident, one for a guest. One reason for the uncluttered look is that elders with memory loss are often at risk for falling. Keeping clear paths may minimize falls. Regarding the dresser: it’s best to have clothing and other essentials occupy only a couple of drawers. That way, if a purse is lost, a resident has fewer places to look.
DECOR–If possible, the room should have pictures on the wall, including ones the resident is familiar with from his or her past. A familiar bedspread, throw pillows and possibly an afghan may help bring a sense of “home” to the room.
SCHEDULE–Most memory care communities are consistent about meal times. That’s good. A person with dementia often has much better long-term memory than short-term memory. They may remember that lunch is at 11:30, since that’s lunch time every day. They may not remember that what they had for breakfast or if they had breakfast.
STAFF–Consistency in staff is great! If the resident knows that Bing is the one who helps her go to the bathroom and that he is kind and caring, she will experience less anxiety.
VISITS–This is a hard one. Families can’t always come at the same time, or they might have to skip a visit for a day, a week or more. Calling staff ahead of time to announce your arrival is helpful. Also, some residents have trouble saying “Goodbye” without tears, major tears. One family I know schedules the visit an hour or so before lunch. They end the visit with the resident going to lunch and forgetting the tears.
These ideas on simplicity involve both staff and the family. It’s a team effort!
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